Friday, April 20, 2012

Family. Are they matter?

Assalamualaikum...

MY HEART


In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony.

Eva Burrows


Family? What are they actually? Family is s social unit consisting of parents and their children, considered as a group, whether dwelling together or not. They are the crucial part in our life. When we were born, our family had taught us the values of love, care, affection self-confidence, truthfulness, improves our personality and much more. Without them, we cannot be what we are right now. In our life, we need them as they are the one that can accept us just the way we are. There are no terms and conditions when you are with them. You also free with tension and every members of your family can be there to help and support you whenever you are having problems. Being with them and seeing their laugh, smile and joy will helps you to endure the toughest time that you ever experienced in your life. They also bring the pleasures into our life.

Besides, our main objective in this life is to gain the success and become someone that useful in the future. Family helps us to create the strong future. They will guide, give some important suggestion about what your career, what you can be in the future. Other than guiding us, they also cover our expenditures on schools and I think every need that we must have in our life have been cover by them as they wanted the best for us and do not want us to live through the tough times like them. In addition, when we have grown up, we become matured and can differentiate between bad and good. However, when we still made mistakes, they will scold us because they love us. They want us to change and become a good person not like other person like your friends that will never ask or never scold for something good. In fact, they even try to influence us to do something bad. Unlike family, they are totally different.

However, not many people see the important of family nowadays. They tend to spend most of their time with friends. But when they are having problem, it was their family that will helps them not their friends. Even you are the highest point in giving up in your life, family will be there for you to support, cherish and helps you to realize and gain your spirit in your life.

As for me, I’m very happy and thank to Allah that I was given a big and happy family where they will always be there for me whenever I’m in failure. They will always give moral support and advice to me that never stop to gain your success, do not easily give up and always pray to HIM.  Even I’m having a big problem and cannot think properly, but seeing and being with them will make me to stop thinking about the problem for the moment as they still can make you happy anytime and anywhere. They are the precious thing in my life and their love is life’s greatest blessing. 





M. Grundler

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